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5 Reasons Why The Narcissist Studies And Tests You…
Oh if only the Narcissists would decide to use all of their gifts for good, they could be excellent professors or researchers… well I am sure there are many who already work in those fields but anyway…. As with all things related to Narcissism, their motives for observing and evaluating you are 100% about them. Why does the Narcissist study and test you? Narcissists need to know their victims inside and out to be able to exploit, hurt, and control them. Narcissists tend to be extremely calculated, analytical, and purposeful in how they select and then groom a victim. Here are 5 reasons to explain why a narcissist will study and test you……
They have to hook you- Especially during the love-bombing phase, the narcissist will want to know everything about you. They probably will even ask your family and friends for tips on how to impress you or stalk you online to discover all of your likes and dislikes. Then, they can pretend that they like and dislike the exact same things that you do so you feel like you have finally found your soulmate. In the beginning, they will surprise you with your favourite cup of coffee, take you to your favourite restaurant, or buy you tickets to see your favourite comedian and you will think, “How did they know!” They know because they have stalked, researched, and investigated you in a creepy way. Now that doesn’t sound so…
