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8 Terrible Techniques That The Narcissist Uses To Manipulate You…

Sherile Turner-Myles
5 min readNov 28, 2021
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The narcissist tends to be quite resourceful when it comes to their bag of manipulation tricks. They will not be afraid of stooping very low to pull the wool over your eyes and deceive you. The extremes that they go to in order to con others is sometimes extreme…. Oh if only they could put that work ethic and perseverance to a good cause! Narcissists are master manipulators and sometimes it takes a few days to connect the dots and figure out what on Earth just happened. You are not stupid or weak if you have fallen for their manipulation techniques. Here are some of those slippery snakes that go to strategies when it comes to manipulation. All of their manipulation tools are cruel and hurtful, and trust me they will do whatever it takes to keep you under their control. Keep your eyes open for the below guys and gals!

  1. Sex…… Many of my clients have told me unbelievable stories in which a narcissist has used sex to manipulate them. They are not all passionate lovers that rival Casanova but let’s start with the ones that like to put on a sex show. Some narcissists will dedicate a lot of time, energy, and passion into their love making techniques. Why? Well they like to put on a show and fish for compliments so THEY get all the attention. The sex is never about pleasing you or intimacy, no no….. it is about their ego growing. Sometimes a…

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Sherile Turner-Myles
Sherile Turner-Myles

Written by Sherile Turner-Myles

I write about Covert Narcissism and other Personality Disorders, and how they impact relationships.

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