9 Confronting Signs Your Confident Partner is, in fact, an Overt Narcissist.

Confidence is one of the most attractive and desired characteristics we look for in ourselves and our partners. Confidence can be an attractive trait in a partner, but it can also be a mask for overt narcissism. Narcissistic individuals often present themselves as charming and confident, but their underlying behaviour can be emotionally manipulative and damaging.

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Here are 9 examples of Overt Narcissistic behaviour that can be easily confused with confidence.

1. A need to be prioritized: One of the key signs of overt narcissism is a sense of entitlement. For example, your partner may expect you to prioritize their needs and desires above your own and may become frustrated or angry if you do not comply (Raskin & Terry, 1988).
2. Indifference: Narcissists often struggle with empathy and may seem indifferent to the feelings of others. For example, they may make insensitive comments or ignore your feelings, even when they have hurt you (Emmons, 1987).
3. Constant Bragging: Narcissistic individuals may display grandiose behaviour, acting as though they are superior to others and deserving of admiration and special treatment. For example, they may constantly brag about their accomplishments or downplay the achievements of others (Raskin & Terry, 1988).