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Are You Dating an Antagonistic Narcissist?

Sherile Turner-Myles
5 min readAug 20, 2024

What To Do If You Suspect You Are

Dating can be a thrilling experience, filled with the excitement of new connections and the potential for long-lasting love. However, not all relationships are healthy, and it’s crucial to be aware of the signs that someone might be an antagonistic narcissist — a person whose need for control, conflict, and dominance can turn a romantic relationship toxic.

An antagonistic narcissist is a subtype of narcissist characterized by aggressive behavior, a lack of empathy, and a deep-seated need to assert power over others. These individuals can be charming at first, but they often reveal their true nature through manipulative tactics, mind games, and aggressive actions. Here’s how to avoid getting involved with an antagonistic narcissist.

1. Be Wary of Being Rushed

Imagine you’ve just started dating someone, and after only a few dates, they’re already talking about exclusivity, moving in together, or even marriage. They might shower you with affection and make you feel like the most important person in their world, pushing the relationship forward at breakneck speed.

Why It’s a Red Flag: This behavior is often a tactic used by antagonistic narcissists to quickly establish control. By rushing the relationship, they prevent you from seeing their…

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Sherile Turner-Myles
Sherile Turner-Myles

Written by Sherile Turner-Myles

I write about Covert Narcissism and other Personality Disorders, and how they impact relationships.

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