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Are You The Covert Narcissist’s Dream Come True?

Sherile Turner-Myles
3 min readApr 8, 2023

Narcissism has long been associated with flamboyant behaviour and attention-seeking antics. We envision a grandiose personality, always in the spotlight, basking in the adoration of their followers. However, the truth is far more sinister. Not all narcissists are so easily recognisable. Some hide their true intentions and motives behind a carefully crafted facade of humility and selflessness. These are covert narcissists, and they can be just as dangerous and manipulative as their more obvious counterparts.

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The covert narcissist is a master at concealing their true nature, drawing in their unsuspecting prey with a veneer of charm and seeming selflessness. But make no mistake — behind the mask lies a need for admiration, control, and validation that is just as potent as that of their more flamboyant counterparts. In a relationship, covert narcissists will seek out specific traits in their partner that will enable them to fulfil their insatiable desires. Whether it be a lack of self-esteem or a desire to please, the covert narcissist knows exactly what to look for to ensure that their partner will remain under their control.

But how can one spot a covert narcissist before they become entangled in their web of manipulation and deceit? By understanding the traits that these individuals look for in a relationship partner, we can empower…

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Sherile Turner-Myles
Sherile Turner-Myles

Written by Sherile Turner-Myles

I write about Covert Narcissism and other Personality Disorders, and how they impact relationships.

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