Dark Psychology and Covert Narcissism: How To Reclaim Your Life ( with links)

Sherile Turner-Myles
4 min readJan 28, 2024

The human inclination towards revenge, especially in the context of relationships with covert narcissists, is a complex and deeply rooted psychological phenomenon. This article explores the natural desire to seek retribution against those who have wronged us, particularly in the manipulative grips of a covert narcissist.

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As a professional in the field of psychology, it’s crucial to emphasise that employing “dark psychology tactics” is not a recommended or ethical approach for dealing with any situation, including interactions with a covert narcissist.

The use of manipulative or harmful strategies can lead to negative consequences and further complications in one’s life. Instead, it’s important to focus on healthy and constructive methods to regain control and move forward positively.

Understanding the Desire for Retribution

The drive for revenge is as old as humanity itself, an intrinsic part of our psychological makeup. It’s rooted in our innate sense of justice — when we are wronged, especially by someone manipulative like a covert narcissist, we instinctively want to right the perceived injustice. This response isn’t just about retribution; it’s also about reasserting our worth and ensuring such harm doesn’t happen again.

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Sherile Turner-Myles

I write about Covert Narcissism and other Personality Disorders, and how they impact relationships.