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The Great Awakener: Embracing the Spiritual Journey of Death and Grief

Sherile Turner-Myles
4 min readJun 10, 2023

In the vast tapestry of human experience, death and grief hold a profound place of transformation and awakening.

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When we encounter the departure of a loved one, grief becomes a sacred passage that invites us to delve into the depths of our being, opening our hearts and minds to a deeper purpose in life. It ignites a sense of urgency within us, compelling us to leave the world a better place than we found it. Let us explore the stages of grief and how they relate to the spiritual awakening process, along with suggested responses to embrace this transformative journey.

Denial: In the initial stage of grief, denial shields us from the overwhelming pain and reality of loss. It is a protective mechanism that allows us to gradually process the departure’s impact. In this stage:

Respond with self-compassion: Honour your need for time and space to gradually acknowledge and accept the truth of the loss. Be gentle with yourself, knowing that denial is a natural part of grieving.

Anger: As the denial fades, a surge of anger may emerge. We may feel a sense of injustice, questioning why our loved one was taken away or feeling resentment towards others or even towards ourselves. In this stage:

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Sherile Turner-Myles
Sherile Turner-Myles

Written by Sherile Turner-Myles

I write about Covert Narcissism and other Personality Disorders, and how they impact relationships.

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