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What is The #1 Weakness of Vulnerable Narcissists?

Sherile Turner-Myles
4 min readApr 13, 2023

Vulnerable Narcissists have many weaknesses; in this post, I will discuss the #1 weakness and provide four key signs that you can use to identify vulnerable or covert narcissists in your life.

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Here are the top 5 weaknesses to begin with:

5. Lack of Empathy: Vulnerable narcissists’ self-focus obstructs their ability to empathise, hindering the development of deep connections and leaving them with shallow or strained relationships.

4. Need for Control: Driven by a fear of vulnerability and rejection, these individuals attempt to control their environment and others, using manipulation or emotional blackmail, which often backfires and isolates them further.

3. Emotional Fragility: Concealed beneath their facade lies emotional volatility, with mood swings, anger, and emptiness plaguing their lives and hampering their well-being.

2. Inability to Handle Criticism: Even the slightest critique can be perceived as a personal attack, provoking feelings of humiliation and leading to defensiveness, retaliation, or withdrawal in an attempt to protect their fragile ego.

  1. The False Self (The #1 Weakness):

The reliance on a carefully constructed false self is central to the vulnerable narcissist. This persona masks their…

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Sherile Turner-Myles
Sherile Turner-Myles

Written by Sherile Turner-Myles

I write about Covert Narcissism and other Personality Disorders, and how they impact relationships.

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